One of the hardest things for a single mama to deal with is the shame and embarrassment. When I first became a single mama, it was very hurtful to me when I knew that I needed to leave my baby daddy for good. I realized it meant that I was going to have to go it alone with a little baby. A lot crossed my mind. What would people think of me? Would they look down upon me?
Through spiritual growth I have learned to not be consumed with what others think. All I know is that my love for my child outweighs everything else on this earth. I know that I am a wonderful mother and a good genuine loving person. Why should what others think of me matter? I am not less than or lacking just because I happen to be single with a baby. I am more confident than I have ever been in my life and I don't need anyone to validate me!
God has blessed me and enriched my life with so much love. I truly embrace being a single mama, I know that God wants me to experience this right now. I know that I have many blessing yet to come, and that a good man is out there for me. I would rather wait for the right man to come along than be miserable with the wrong man right now.
My advice to you mama is to hold your head up high! Know that you are strong and beautiful. Only one persons opinion matters, and that is your own. To hell with the rest! I leave you with this quote, "We are beautiful no matter what they say Yes, words won't bring us down, oh no We are beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring us down Don't you bring me down today." -Christina Aguilera
Genene
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